How to Find Real Love
Do you want to find real love? Maybe you have already found it. Maybe you have lost it. A lot of people have only a vague idea of what love is. Some have no idea at all. Some say that love is not so much the emotional, passionate or romantic ideals that we are bombarded with everyday (although that is a part of it), but more of a commitment to someone special for a lifetime.
For most people falling in love means having strong, close, warm, intoxicating feelings. When these feelings pass, (as they must) they feel that the love is gone. Nothing can be further from the truth. When these feelings pass (as all feelings do) that is the point at which the love can begin. Read on and learn how to find real love in your life.
This love has its genesis in doing. It is not a state of fantasy, but a process of action that is sincere and ever present. It starts with ourselves, and extends out to others. It is not love that we are fishing for, but feelings that we are giving to others. This kind of love, which won't fail, is built upon your actions of worth.
When we fill our lives, and our actions towards others, with things of value, things that we can respect - actions towards them and ourselves that are loving, respectful, generous, kind, love happens right then. The more actions of this kind that we take towards others and towards ourselves the stronger our foundation of love becomes. No matter how the other is behaving, we can always respond with an action of worth - with a kind word, a moment of forgiveness, a hug, with seeing the vision. We can open our hands and offer life to them, rather than close our hands and our hearts, embrace and comfort them in a special place.
If you think more about these actions, you will be able to answer the question how to find real love and your relationships will be more fulfilling as a result.
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